有两句话我是比较欣赏的:生命是一种过程;事业是一种结果。我们每一个人活是活在每一天的,假如说你每一天不高兴,你把所有的每一天组合起来,就是你一辈子不高兴,但是假如说你每一天都高兴了,其实你一辈子就是幸福快乐的!有一次我在往黄河边上走的时候,我就用矿泉水瓶灌了一瓶子的水,大家知道黄河水特别浑,后来我就放在路边上,大概有一个小时左右呢,让我非常吃惊的发现,四分之三已经变成了非常清澈的一瓶水,而只有四分之一呢,是沉淀下来的泥沙。那假如说我们把这瓶水的清水部分比喻我们的幸福和快乐,而把那个浑浊的那个泥,沉淀的泥沙比喻我们的痛苦的话,你就明白了,当你摇晃一下以后,你的生命中整个充满的是浑浊,也就是充满都是痛苦和烦恼,但是当你把心静下来以后,尽管泥沙总的分量一点都没有减少,但是它沉淀在你的心中,因为你的心比较沉静,所以就再也不会被搅和起来,因此你生命中的四分之三就一定是幸福和快乐。什么叫事业是一种结果呢,大家都知道,作为一件事情,确实是无情的,假如说我把新东方做失败了,我是绝对得不到今天到这儿来给大家讲话的机会的,原因是因为它最后的结果在这儿,所以任何事情只要你在做的时候,他就不能算成功,比如说我们说曹雪芹是成功的,不管是社会主义还是资本主义,都得承认曹雪芹是中国历史上最伟大的文学家之一,我们说牛顿是成功的,不管哪一个国家任何一个人都会承认他是世界上最伟大的科学家之一,我认为我自己是成功的,不成功在新东方做了多大,也不成功在我有多少钱,或有多少朋友,我认为我成功在我有一种心态,过去我摔倒过千万次,以后我也可能还会摔倒千万次,但是我依然能够爬起来。对于你做事情来说,事情的结果怎么样,在社会人的眼中,是成功的惟一的标准!
There are two words that I appreciate: Life is a process; career is a result. Everyone live live in every day, if every day you upset you every day all combined, is your life happy, but if you happy every day, in fact, your life is happy Happy! Time I go to the Yellow River, I use mineral water bottles filling a bottle of water, we all know that the Yellow River water is particularly muddy, then I placed on the side of the road, about an hour or so, so I am very surprise, found that three-quarters have become a very clear and a bottle of water, and only a quarter of it is settling down sediment. That if we put a bottle of water to fresh water part of the metaphor of our happiness and joy, and that that mud, muddy sediment precipitation metaphor of our pain, you understand, when you shake it after your life in whole is full of pollution, that is full of all the pain and trouble, but when you calm down, despite the sediment total weight at all did not decrease, but it is deposited in your heart, because your heart is quiet, so we never mix up three-quarters of your life must be happiness and joy. What is the cause of a result, we all know that as one thing, it really is relentless, if New Oriental I do fail, I am absolutely not here today to give you the opportunity to address the reasons because its final results here, so anything as long as you do it, he can not be considered successful, for example, we said Cao Xueqin success, whether socialist or capitalist, would have to admit that Cao Xueqin Chinese history one of the greatest writers, we say that Newton is successful, whatever nation or any people would admit that he is one of the greatest scientists in the world, I consider myself to be successful, unsuccessful New Oriental much not successful how much money I have or how many friends I think I succeeded in that I have a state of mind, I fell in the past more than 10 million times, the future I may also fall thousands of times, but I'm still able to get up. For how you do things, things like, the eyes of people in society, it is the only standard of success!
第一次登台演讲,这对我来说是一次伟大的尝试,因为我总是习惯于做听众,为别人鼓掌。
“好紧张啊!能否成功?会不会忘词呢?”我一边等待,一边在心里叨念着,并不时地做着深呼吸。“别怕,都已经做了充分的准备,该胸有成竹了。”我渐渐平静下来了。
伴随着音乐,我镇定自如地上台。所有人的目光都集中在我身上,这一刻,我成了焦点。“妈妈我想对您说……”我一开口,台下一片安静。按着稿子,我进入了演讲的状态,老师和同伴都用信任、鼓励的目光看着我。我一边演讲,一边回想起和妈妈相处的快乐时光:妈妈的关心,妈妈的鼓励,妈妈的责备……所有的妈妈对我的好,都像放电影一样一幕一幕地展开。我觉得我不是在演讲,而是和妈妈说着心里话。“妈妈,我长大了!请接受儿子对您的尊敬和热爱!”说完,我向台下深深地鞠躬。“哗———”掌声想起来了,清脆、响亮。我成功了!我终于战胜了自己。
当我从老师手上接过亮闪闪的奖杯时,我对自己说:“我实现了一次超越,我是一个勇敢的人。”
亲爱的老师,同学们:
大家好!我演讲的题目是《自信的味道》。
自信,顾名思义就是相信自己。人们常说:“人要有主见,才能办好事”。的确,自信是成功的第一秘诀。
唐代韩愈初次考举人时,文章并未受到主考官的赏识,结果落榜了。三年后,他再次去考,主考官依然没变,就连文章的题目也没有改变,韩愈不假思索,毫不犹豫地将上次所写的文章原封不动地写了一遍,出乎意料的是,这次主考官对他的文章大为欣赏,结果中了榜。如果他重写一篇或不去考试,那么,他还能中榜吗?
爱迪生——一个进行了大量发明创造的科学家,他也经历了无数次的实验失败与挫折,但他相信自己一定能成功,就凭着这一点,他战胜了失败与挫折。如果当时他认为“我不行”,就自暴自弃,那么,他至今还会被人们所称道吗?
自信,是坚持正确的意见,面对困难是不灰心,不放弃,执着地追求自己的目标,理想,相信自己一定行,你就一定能成功。
我现在也遇到了许多的难题,比如:现在的学习负担比较重,要复习的东西很多很多,有时会把我压得喘不过气来。每当我遇到困难时,我就在心里默默地说:“我一定能行”,我凭着我的自信,我成功了。
朋友,你是否也遇到难题了,如果是,把你的自信拿出来,慢慢地品尝自信的味道吧!
我的演讲完毕。
谢谢大家!